how can I live right just once

What is right? What is wrong?

Why do I have to live right or wrong, happily or with courage, being a success or failure? why is it all so complicated ?

Can I just ignore it all?

Of course I can. I will go to travel the world alone. I won't be in contact with anybody I know. I would make temporary friends and will have good memories with them. the people for lifetime are a bit hard to deal with sometimes. Either you hurt them or they hurt you. Maybe both of you take each other for granted.

Parents do love their kids and wish well for them. But they also fight with each other and hurt each other sometimes. They can not live without each other either. When they had kids they became forgiving, they were not filled with love but love started growing in them and it keeps growing for their babies. Love generates thoughts of wellness for us. That is why we feel most safe with them. They think about us positively always.

It is rare to find that connection, some people don't have this connection with their parents as well.

Where to find this connection?

It has to be with myself first. I need to be positive about myself. Its only me, my mind, my heart that creates so many things around me which are almost imaginary.

When I will start loving myself, I will forgive myself for my mistakes, I will encourage myself to learn from them, I will assure that I have got everything around me,feed upon good thoughts and let them grow in my mind and heart.

Kind heart is like soft soil everything flourishes in it abundantly. sow the seeds of whatever you want to grow.

Either your thoughts control you, or you control your thoughts. The beings who have their thoughts in control make a difference and those who master their thoughts make a different place for themselves.

In short every act cannot be classified as right or wrong. It is the way it is.......

history might have stories to classify the acts of right or wrong, every minute you spend is a history. Moving on is the only way out.

-Ashman

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